Author: Jennifer Paget
But how?
You have probably read that play is vital for development. But what does that mean? What does beneficial play look like for my child? What if my child doesn’t naturally play with me or other children? What if my child only likes to play on screens?
Parent play lays the foundation for play with other children. Play with parents is more meaningful to children than we often realize. Here are some general principles to for parents to develop playfulness with their children:
- Play as Partners
Play is most fun when you create it together. If we adults are over-leading the play, children struggle to keep up. This makes it hard for them to be playful. - Keep it Easy
If the activities are fairly easy for them, children can be more playful. - Slow Down
Most children cannot think as fast as adults. In order to participate fully, they need time to process and respond. If we go too fast, they often lose interest. - Let the Good Feelings Show!
The joy of play is transmitted through the face and voice. As you slow down, use the time to relish the fun through knowing looks, anticipation, and gleeful sounds. - Less Talk
Children often have trouble thinking when someone is talking. With more action and less words, they can participate more easily. - Repeat Often
As adults, we may get bored faster than our children. We have already “been there, done that.” Not necessarily so for our children. By repeating more, they can become more masterful and even more interested.
Looking for more support with play? We can work together to understand your child’s play readiness and make a customized plan that includes activity ideas, demonstrations, coaching and practice.
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